set_sending_async
Description:
Set the stream to start or stop sending media from the local user to other contacts.
If send is true, 
        local_sending_state should change to SENDING, if
      it isn't already. If send is false, 
      local_sending_state should change to 
      NONE, if it isn't already.
Parameters:
| this | |
| send | the requested sending state | 
| callback | a callback to call when the operation finishes | 
| user_data | data to pass to  |